Fighting Against the Unseen

How many times have we encountered a difficult situation or challenge that came dressed as someone we love? Maybe a spouse, child, relative, or friend have risen up against us in some way and our first, and most natural reaction is to fight or possible take control of the situation. What often come from that reaction is best described as squeezing gelatine in your hand; a lot of effort but nothing to show for it. 

God gives us wise counsel when we face these threats in Ephesians 6:12 "For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual hosts of wickedness in the heavenly places."

In order to fight these spiritual forces we have to rely on the Holy Spirit to lead us and guide us, because if we don't we risk doing more harm than good. This doesn't mean that we won't have to confront behavior that is destructive or harmful, but the Holy Spirit will enable and empower us to keep the right focus in the right areas. 

What are some ways that you enlist the Holy Spirit's help when you're facing a tough situation with a family member or friend?